Epiphany: It seems a woman's fate to have love pulled from hugging arms. It seems man's to have love pass open arms. The way each responds and copes really defines the person. It seems that for each instance the person can respond positively, negatively, or neutrally (duh?). Positives grow and keep trying. Negatives fester and become resentful. Neutrals sit apathetically and don't gain. ...And that's today's metaphysical news ;)